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Anniversary Festivities 2017 - Our first in Chapel Hill


Annie and I aren't big gifters, so if you're expecting flowers, surprise gondola rides, and diamond earrings, then you've come to the wrong place. An anniversary, to us, is a day to celebrate what we love most about our lives together. So in our first anniversary spent in North Carolina we wanted to take the opportunity to translate our classic traditions to our new home 8 hours east.

Above most pleasures in life we are believers in two things: Food and music. So the fact that our anniversary has become, in some ways, a fusion of those two things we love is no surprise. In transferring our traditions here, we sought out two locations: a record store and a new gourmet restaurant.

When we were approaching our first anniversary Annie and I were trying to think of a tradition we could create that was our own - something we could mark the years with while gifting in a way that actually meant something to each of us. We settled on our shared love for good music and well-designed album covers - thus our vinyl gifting tradition was born.
yes, that is Hall & Oates classic album, 'Voices,' in case you were wondering

We've marked several birthdays, Christmases, and Valentine's days with a gifted vinyl; but we never miss an Anniversary. Each vinyl is dated (usually with an added smiley from Annie), and added to our collection. I especially love this tradition because it adds nostalgic value to the gift. Every time we grab a vinyl off the shelf and pull the sleeve, the date reminds us of year it was gifted. This paired with the sounds of the needle on pressed vinyl often seem to bring back memories from that specific part of our lives, a sort of multi-sense time capsule no other gift really could really serve as.

We decided to fulfill this tradition this year by selecting a local record from School Kid Records in downtown Chapel Hill (for you Louisvillians, think Guestroom Records without quite as much of the digging). Every record they had on site was top notch (including the entire Tribe Called Quest arsenal and several Kendrick albums that I drooled over before putting back), with a healthy selection of new materials and an entire section dedicated to local music. After 20-30 minutes of browsing, discussion, and debate, we ended up with the new album from a Durham band that we both already knew and loved, Sylvan Esso: 2 days later it's already on it's third run-through on our player.

Our next move was our traditional dinner at a new restaurant. We typically select something we wouldn't do on an average night out, and we order whatever we want on the menu. We look more for local culinary artistry over one quality staple. Think 610 Magnolia, Husk, or Coles over Ruth's Chris, Jeff Ruby's, or Vincenzo's.  Our previous two anniversaries included Rye in Nulu, and Lilly's Bistro, a Louisville classic.

This year, after a quick stop for pre-dinner drink at West End Wine Bar, we found ourselves at Lantern, a fusion of Asian flavors and North Carolina ingredients. Lantern is headed by Andrea Reusing, a James Beard Best Chef award winner in 2011, and a local farm-to-table advocate. The crab and spicy pork spring rolls were possibly the best part of the meal (Annie would of course disagree and say dessert), while both of our fish dishes were prepared to perfection with an impressively delicate mix of flavors.

While the food itself is a vital part of the evening, the experience is what we remember about these dining experiences. Similarly to our records, we want to be able to revisit those experiences and document them in a way that's meaningful to us. We've been able to do this through menus. An absolute necessity with our anniversary restaurant of choice is that they have a daily printed paper menu. Over time, we hope to fill our kitchen walls with our favorite food experiences, and those dated as July 12 will always come with a special nostalgia.

Anniversaries don't have to be a light and sound show every year. For us, the experience of a good album and well-prepared food are enough to remind us again why we said 'I do' in the first place. If I have any advice for others, it's find what makes you 'you,' and spend your anniversary celebrating that. Whether it's a TV series, a book, love of dogs, travel, live music, or even lavish gifts, celebrate that. It's a beautiful reminder of what makes your relationship unique.



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